Firsts.

You know when you have split up with someone that you have had a reasonable length relationship with. And the 'love' word was used alot. ...what is the acceptable length of time taken to want to experiance 'firsts' again?

If the relationship broke up, not because of someone overtly cheating physicaly, but because of apathy from one side towards the other.....does it take like the old addage 'a month for every year you were together?' .....old sayings are great, they are there because there is truth in them. Is there in this one?

I dont know. All I can say is I have learnt from the past. And now want a little bit of the future. Not immediately, but I am ready to concider the possibilities.

I know absolutly what I dont want in someone. And I also know what kind of things I do want. Strength. Humour. Passion. Confidence. Old fashioned values. An enormous heart. Kindness. Truth. The ability to dance. Being able to hold their own in conversation. Being able to have a conversation. And physicaly a huge smile, rugby player thighs (!) and to be tall, really tall.

Please send anyone fitting this description to me...... I would be delighted to see them!!

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