Questions and Answers

How much are you willing to compromise?

As previously mentioned my girlfriends and I have talked about how, when you live on your own there is no-one to disagree with the choices you make about your day to day life, and therefore the choices you make are always right.
Having said that, compromise is important. To those you love compromising around the things that they want and need is an easy thing, shaping your combined ideas around each other so that you dont even realise compromise is happening. Putting someone else first is something that when you are in a mutually loving relationship is a delight to do.

So, what are you not willing to compromise on?... for me its fundamental things that I hold dear to me. Obviously compromising the time I spend with Small cannot be moved, manipulated or changed. Racism sexism and homophobia I find abhorrant. And I will not compromise myself to tolorate them.
I also will not compromise on sharing a man with someone else. I dont think anyone should. Knowing that they are with someone else when you start a relationship with them is one thing, and you have to make your own mind up on the morality of that. But finding out that they are seeing you and someone else is something I walk away from. Without confrontation. Knowing is enough. Talking about it just gives the other person the opportunity to justify their actions. Which I am not interested in.

....We are all worth more than that!


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